Yea...they should check your texts and myspace and anything else they wanted. Im pretty sure u didnt pay for that phone or that computer so technically its theirs...they are just letting you use it. If you dont want them to go through it buy your own!!
Voted on March 11, 2010
Shelby
most def not. my mom and me got into a fight over that but i think we deserve some freedom espically when we are talking to our ffriends i mean they dont like us knowing what there talking about
Voted on March 03, 2010
iusemybrain
yes for all they know you could be a pervert
Voted on February 24, 2010
Vicki
Yes Rick, your parents have the right to check you My Space. As a minor your business is is their business by law. They're legally responsible for you actions and for protecting you from the many dangrs you could encounter, that you may not have the ability or maturity to handle properly
Voted on February 23, 2010
Rick
yes
Voted on February 13, 2010
D
It's a matter of morals and communication. I think kids SHOULD have privacy with their myspace only if they know what's acceptable to their ethical standards and values.
Voted on February 12, 2010
Rayd
You don't have the right to privacy if you are under 18 and still live under your parents roof. In my opinion, if it bothers you when your parents check your texts and rants then you're up to something or at least thats what parents feel. If you have nothing to hide then it shouldn't bother you when PLOS.
Voted on February 09, 2010
Felicia
Kids should have some privacy but when it comes to the internet they should check up on you. I know I wouldn't agree when I was younger but there is alot of fake & misleading people out there waiting to molest, rape, kidnap, or even kill. As far as texting, well that I think shouldn't be such a issue because it should be people you know but I completely believe that parents should have axcess to a kids acct. online.
Voted on January 15, 2010
Bx
I wish my parents would have paid better attention 2 me growin up. I wouldnt have dun half the things an would have known not to do it like that and made them mistakes I have made.
Voted on January 11, 2010
Bx
its kinda like the bird theory. You teach the bird how to fly an the dangers an when its time you push them outa nest an hope they can fly. untill the bird is ready to fly on there own though. Momma or daddy bird should be watchin an teachin there kids the rights an wrongs. This includes monitoring there kids at what they do an like to do. Its when the adults dont pay attention or teach there little 1s right from wrong is when you have so many probs. example, Kid wouldnt be sellin dope on a corner if parents paid attention to there kids an what they are doin. So yes i promote parents monitoring an stayin close to there kids so bad things wont happen to them while they are young. To many perverted people online to not monitor them.
Voted on January 11, 2010
Mother
I always talked with my children. I tried to teach them the right and wrong things to do.I tried to let them have there privacy.I never checked their emails or my space.The computer was in the room where I was at,But I never spied, I let them know that at any time I could walk up and see what they were writing, I just told them to do what was right and they never had to worry about it. A lot of times they would even invite me to see what was being wrote to them good and bad. It is called trust and respect with each other.
Voted on December 30, 2009
midnight
I agree with anonymous. You need to build a trust between you and your child from the the time they are born. Spying on your child will never end well. If you feel the need to spy on your child then you should question your parenting skills.
Voted on December 29, 2009
Anonymous
Personally, I feel if you raised your child the right way then there shouldn't be a reason to check up on them. You need a line of trust with your child, or else they are just going to keep pushing and rebelling.
Voted on December 29, 2009
sofina76248
Parents should be able to check your stuff. Your parents are responsible for you and your actions. As a young person your judgement is sometimes not the most developed, and you do need guidance. If your parents are concerned they have good reason to be. You don't even understand that they care. Not just the predators but you could be sexting because you think it's funny or "just a joke" but it isn't. Your parents are trying to keep you safe.
Voted on December 28, 2009
sierra(:
I disagree. If they are good kids then what would the reason be? I understand that parents just want to make sure that they're kids are safe and not doing anything wrong, but aren't there other ways.
Voted on December 11, 2009
Randy
i think parents should check your myspace untill you can spell parent
Voted on November 24, 2009
playsbase
hey bud I know right now you think it is a invasion of your privacy but the world is full of predators of all kinds and parents do have the right to check on all your online activities.Just wait till you grow up and have a kid of your own and you will understand what is is like to be responsible for another's persons life and actions.
Voted on November 10, 2009
emtprincess
Dang right parents have the right to know what is going on at all times. You live in there house and live off their hard work so just deal with it. What ya got to hide? If nothing then what is the big deal
Voted on October 22, 2009
why? what do you have to hide?
im 13, and i still think sure my mom can see what i say if she wants, i aint got nuttin to hide
Voted on October 08, 2009
Paul Schewene
The question here, deals with the constitutional rights of the land and which apply to children... and at what point that those rights are curtailed to protect our children from blundering into harm's way.
The law is written to recognize what a 'reasonable person' should rightly be expected to do in life. By reasonable person, the law assumes this person to be a mature adult, who is mature enough to consider the ramifications of their actions, before they undertake them.
The law generally recognizes, that those under the age of 18, are not yet fully educated, experienced and seasoned to the ways and yes, the dangers of the world in which we live.
The law also recognizes children DO have rights under our constitution. This is why generally, students are entitled to be represented by their parents in school disciplinary matters they want to appeal, and why schools must abide states' guidelines on search and seizure and student privacy.
Under the law, it IS however, a PARENT'S right, to monitor their child, and to curtail the child's rights and privileges when they feel reasonably, that the child's activities could lead to harm to the child, OR lead to the child engaging in inappropriate behavior.
The lives of kids HAVE been saved, by parents who CARED enough to 'snoop' into the kid's diary, or a MySpace or Facebook account of the child's. Suicides have been averted, and so have runaway situations, and child kidnapping for the purpose of human trafficing, sex crimes, etc.
It's a parent's responsibility to raise their child and to protect their child from the world, until that child is ready to step up and assume responsibility for themselves. On that basis... it is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT of a parent to monitor their child's internet behaviors, their cell phone usage, their room and possessions, and their behavior in general. More to the point... it's their duty under the law to do so, and their MORAL duty to the child.
Children don't like this. I didn't when I was a kid. But now that I'm older, and see what a screwed up world we're in, and how many dangerous characters there are out here and now that I know how they do their thing... I APPRECIATE that my folks 'snooped' or 'intruded' frequently!!
Appreciate your parents son, it sounds like they care a lot about you. You may not 'like' what they're doing now. But if they did NOT do what they're doing... you'd like the RESULTS of them not looking after you, a LOT LESS.
Voted on March 05, 2010
TheSevie
I you think that kids are soooo gullible and have no common sense then you are a bunch of hypocrites! If you say that then you have no buisness telling us what to do on the internet, because you have given up on us. Your jobs as parents is to protect and teach us from the dangers of the world! You should get rid of our ignorance, not scorn it!
Voted on February 23, 2010
avia
Voted on February 18, 2010
Chad
I think your son should have some sort of privacy. Not alot but some. Would you like if he was all up in your business, checking up who you talk to on the phone , or who you email?! Give him some privacy.
Voted on February 12, 2010
Rayd
OK John, this time I didn't fall asleep on you. You are right, kids have no common sense and are gullible to predators and senseless teens who have poor morals and practice hurting others. Teens went to fit in with their friends and it's unfortunate that the good kids are usually attracted to the attention the bad kids get.
Voted on February 09, 2010
Beth
How rude, someone was trying to instant message you while you were creating this video.